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What We Learned from Aesthetic Realism

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Bennett Cooperman and Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

We’re proud as husband and wife of 30 years to study and teach Aesthetic Realism, founded in 1941 by Eli Siegel, the American poet and philosopher.

Here you’ll find information about the ways this education has changed our lives—as to love and marriage, the understanding of eating disorders, the art of acting, and the everyday questions of men and women.

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Indecisive Men — What Is the Cause?

November 30, 2022 By Bennett Cooperman

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The blade of certainty and the smoke of doubt. — Eli Siegel, “Prosody Is Ours” The way men are decisive and indecisive has confused and even tormented us—it did me. I learned there can be a good kind of indecision in a man that comes from his desire to know, the thing in him that […]

Filed Under: Bennett Cooperman, Men's Questions

George Gershwin’s “Rhapsody in Blue”—Profound & Playful

Originally presented at an Aesthetic Realism seminar: "What Can We Learn from Music about Our Lives?"

November 29, 2022 By Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

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George Gershwin’s Rhapsody in Blue was first performed by him in a concert with the Paul Whiteman orchestra on Abraham Lincoln’s birthday, February 12, 1924.  We’re hearing a recording from 1927, with Gershwin himself at the piano and in an arrangement for jazz band created by Ferde Grofé, Whiteman’s chief arranger.  The sound of this […]

Filed Under: Art, Music, Poetry, Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

Jackie Gleason & Two Kinds of Anger

November 28, 2022 By Bennett Cooperman

Eli Siegel and Aesthetic Realism have explained something completely new about an emotion that troubles people very much—anger. We have two kinds of anger, one makes us strong and the other makes us weak. In The Right of Aesthetic Realism to Be Known #188, Mr. Siegel writes: Aesthetic Realism says that a good anger has […]

Filed Under: Actors & the Drama, Bennett Cooperman

A Wife’s Unseen Battle: Do I Hope to Like Things—or Be Displeased?

Originally presented at an Aesthetic Realism seminar in NYC, with a discussion of Katherine Mansfield's short story, "The Escape."

November 27, 2022 By Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

One lovely fall evening, as I was home making a deep-dish apple pie, I reached up into the cabinet for my flour sifter, but it wasn’t there. “Did someone move my sifter?,” I yelled out in displeasure. Since there were only two cats and one other person in the apartment, who could have moved it?  […]

Filed Under: Love & Relationships, Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

Roughness & Grace in “They Can’t Take That Away from Me”

November 26, 2022 By Bennett Cooperman

A recording I love is the great Louis Armstrong singing “They Can’t Take That Away from Me” by George and Ira Gershwin. His solo rendition comes in the midst of a duet with Ella Fitzgerald from the 1956 album Ella & Louis, one of my all-time favorites. And I think the very opposites we studied […]

Filed Under: Art, Music, Poetry

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Welcome!

Bennett Cooperman and Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

We’re proud as husband and wife of 30 years to study and teach Aesthetic Realism, founded in 1941 by Eli Siegel, the American poet and philosopher.

Here you’ll find information about the ways this education has changed our lives—as to love and marriage, the understanding of eating disorders, the art of acting, and the everyday questions of men and women.

Update

Our friend and colleague of many years, Carol McCluer, has written an important letter about the profound and good effect of Aesthetic Realism on her life. She tells what she learned about success, what real love is, the debate in a woman about depending on how she looks vs. how she sees. You can read her letter here.

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