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Indecisive Men — What Is the Cause?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, New York City

November 30, 2022 By Bennett Cooperman

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The blade of certainty and the smoke of doubt. — Eli Siegel, “Prosody Is Ours” The way men are decisive and indecisive has confused and even tormented us—it did me. I learned there can be a good kind of indecision in a man that comes from his desire to know, the thing in him that […]

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Jackie Gleason & Two Kinds of Anger

First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

November 28, 2022 By Bennett Cooperman

Eli Siegel and Aesthetic Realism have explained something completely new about an emotion that troubles people very much—anger. We have two kinds of anger, one makes us strong and the other makes us weak. In The Right of Aesthetic Realism to Be Known #188, Mr. Siegel writes: Aesthetic Realism says that a good anger has […]

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George M. Cohan: A Man’s Big Question—Can I Be Strong & Kind at Once?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

September 24, 2017 By Bennett Cooperman

The question “Can I be strong and kind at once—and do I want to be?” is huge in the life of every man. I wanted to be a kind person, but when push came to shove, I thought being kind was sappy and made you soft.

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Steve Jobs — How Much Feeling Does a Man Want to Have, and What Kind?

First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

November 30, 2016 By Bennett Cooperman

In The Right of Aesthetic Realism to Be Known Eli Siegel writes: The pleasure we are proudest of, the emotion that is largest, arises from knowing the world as it is, wholly as it is, exactly as it is, tremendously as it is, poetically as it is, scientifically as it is, personally as it is. […]

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Samuel Pepys Shows Men Can Have Both Practicality & Idealism

First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

October 30, 2016 By Bennett Cooperman

I once prided myself on being a practical guy who could take care of myself with an everyday, no-nonsense approach to life. I thought I was a tough person to fool, and was often suspicious of people who showed large emotion, thinking it was inevitably insincere. But I was also desperate to have big feelings […]

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Actors & the Drama

Jackie Gleason & Two Kinds of Anger

Edmund Kean – How Can a Man Have Real Self Expression?

Edwin Booth — What Makes Us Truly Important?

Jimmy Cagney — or Does the Way We Fight Make Us Strong or Weak?

Al Jolson: True Pride and How We Can We Have It

Edwin Forrest — What Makes a Man’s Life Large or Small?

Aria da Capo & What Makes a Man Powerful?

George M. Cohan: A Man’s Big Question—Can I Be Strong & Kind at Once?

Marriage

What Is a Husband’s Biggest Mistake?

What’s Missing When Husbands Talk with Wives?

Men’s Questions

Steve Jobs — How Much Feeling Does a Man Want to Have, and What Kind?

What Does it Mean to Be Courageous?

Samuel Pepys Shows Men Can Have Both Practicality & Idealism

Self-Esteem & Liking the World: What Is the Relation?

Indecisive Men — What Is the Cause?

Should a Man Understand His Anger, or Just Have It?

What Kind of Emotions Are Men Looking For?

Flattery or Criticism: Which Do Men Truly Want?

Generosity Vs. Grudgingness in Men

Does the Desire to Be Kind Make a Person Strong?

How Can a Man Be Rightly Sure of Himself?

Toughness & a Feeling Heart—Can a Man Have Both?

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