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Jackie Gleason & Two Kinds of Anger

First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

November 28, 2022 By Bennett Cooperman

Eli Siegel and Aesthetic Realism have explained something completely new about an emotion that troubles people very much—anger. We have two kinds of anger, one makes us strong and the other makes us weak. In The Right of Aesthetic Realism to Be Known #188, Mr. Siegel writes: Aesthetic Realism says that a good anger has […]

Filed Under: Actors & the Drama, Bennett Cooperman

George M. Cohan: A Man’s Big Question—Can I Be Strong & Kind at Once?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

September 24, 2017 By Bennett Cooperman

The question “Can I be strong and kind at once—and do I want to be?” is huge in the life of every man. I wanted to be a kind person, but when push came to shove, I thought being kind was sappy and made you soft.

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Edwin Forrest — What Makes a Man’s Life Large or Small?

With a discussion of the life and work of the great 19th century actor Edwin Forrest. First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation.

July 11, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Edwin Forrest

Though men may not know it, each of us has a hope to be large, to have big, accurate feeling and comprehensive thought about people and the world. Eli Siegel, founder of the education Aesthetic Realism, wrote: There is…a great tendency of the self to be as large as it can be, to be as […]

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Edwin Booth — What Makes Us Truly Important?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, New York City.

July 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

In his definitive lecture, “Mind and Importance,” Eli Siegel said: If you are important because you feel that what’s real is important, that other people can be important…then your importance is good…Every time we make ourselves truly important, we are making something besides ourselves important, whether we know it or not. This is utterly different from what […]

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Aria da Capo & What Makes a Man Powerful?

With a consideration of the play in verse, Aria da Capo by Edna St. Vincent Millay. First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC.

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Through my study of Aesthetic Realism I’ve seen that we have two different ways of trying to be powerful. In his book Self and World, Eli Siegel writes: “Aesthetic Realism sees the largest purpose of every human being as the liking of the world on an honest basis.” This purpose, I learned, represents our true […]

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Actors & the Drama

“Many persons are better acting than they are just talking, because in acting they take on an impersonal world. All the obstructions are not there. Many actors left to themselves are just bad company, but once they have to take over somebody else they are transformed. From rather unlikable caterpillars, they change to effective butterflies.”

— Eli Siegel, from his 1951 lecture “Aesthetic Realism as Beauty: Acting”

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