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Self-Esteem & Liking the World: What Is the Relation?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

May 7, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Aesthetic Realism taught me that every person’s deepest desire is honestly to like the world different from ourselves. We were born to know and see meaning in people and the things we meet, and when we have this purpose we honestly respect ourselves. We come from the whole world and have its structure in us—”The […]

Filed Under: Bennett Cooperman, Men's Questions

What Does it Mean to Be Courageous?

With a consideration of Sir Walter Scott’s novel, “Ivanhoe.” First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

May 7, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Growing up, I thought courage was either an extraordinary heroic act like rescuing someone, or being honest in a difficult situation where you put yourself on the line. And neither of these was for me. I did not feel courageous—instead I saw it as prudent and smart to get what I could from people and […]

Filed Under: Bennett Cooperman, Men's Questions

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Men’s Questions

As part of the faculty at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, I give consultations with my colleagues to men of all ages and from all walks of life. In a consultation, a man speaks with three consultants about his questions — about love, how to see his family, his job, why he feels angry or bored, why he can’t sustain a care for things that once meant a great deal.

It’s always moving to see how the scientific principles of Aesthetic Realism have a man feel understood in his particularity.

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