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What Kind of Emotions Are Men Looking For?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, New York City.

August 3, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

“Do you think everyone is in a fight between great emotion and little emotion?” That is a question I was asked in one of the classes I attend for Aesthetic Realism consultants and associates, taught by Ellen Reiss. And the answer, I’ve learned, is yes. The deepest purpose of every person, Aesthetic Realism shows, is […]

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Should a Man Understand His Anger, or Just Have It?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

August 3, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

I learned from Aesthetic Realism that a man needs to do all he can to understand his anger in order to be proud of himself. And the main thing we need to understand is that we have two completely different kinds of anger. In his lecture, Aesthetic Realism And Anger, Eli Siegel said: In a […]

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Edwin Forrest — What Makes a Man’s Life Large or Small?

With a discussion of the life and work of the great 19th century actor Edwin Forrest. First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation.

July 11, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Edwin Forrest

Though men may not know it, each of us has a hope to be large, to have big, accurate feeling and comprehensive thought about people and the world. Eli Siegel, founder of the education Aesthetic Realism, wrote: There is…a great tendency of the self to be as large as it can be, to be as […]

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Edwin Booth — What Makes Us Truly Important?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, New York City.

July 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

In his definitive lecture, “Mind and Importance,” Eli Siegel said: If you are important because you feel that what’s real is important, that other people can be important…then your importance is good…Every time we make ourselves truly important, we are making something besides ourselves important, whether we know it or not. This is utterly different from what […]

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Self-Esteem & Liking the World: What Is the Relation?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

May 7, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Aesthetic Realism taught me that every person’s deepest desire is honestly to like the world different from ourselves. We were born to know and see meaning in people and the things we meet, and when we have this purpose we honestly respect ourselves. We come from the whole world and have its structure in us—”The […]

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Actors & the Drama

Jackie Gleason & Two Kinds of Anger

Edmund Kean – How Can a Man Have Real Self Expression?

Edwin Booth — What Makes Us Truly Important?

Jimmy Cagney — or Does the Way We Fight Make Us Strong or Weak?

Al Jolson: True Pride and How We Can We Have It

Edwin Forrest — What Makes a Man’s Life Large or Small?

Aria da Capo & What Makes a Man Powerful?

George M. Cohan: A Man’s Big Question—Can I Be Strong & Kind at Once?

Marriage

What Is a Husband’s Biggest Mistake?

What’s Missing When Husbands Talk with Wives?

Men’s Questions

Steve Jobs — How Much Feeling Does a Man Want to Have, and What Kind?

What Does it Mean to Be Courageous?

Samuel Pepys Shows Men Can Have Both Practicality & Idealism

Self-Esteem & Liking the World: What Is the Relation?

Indecisive Men — What Is the Cause?

Should a Man Understand His Anger, or Just Have It?

What Kind of Emotions Are Men Looking For?

Flattery or Criticism: Which Do Men Truly Want?

Generosity Vs. Grudgingness in Men

Does the Desire to Be Kind Make a Person Strong?

How Can a Man Be Rightly Sure of Himself?

Toughness & a Feeling Heart—Can a Man Have Both?

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