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What Does it Mean to Be Courageous?

With a consideration of Sir Walter Scott’s novel, “Ivanhoe.” First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

May 7, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Growing up, I thought courage was either an extraordinary heroic act like rescuing someone, or being honest in a difficult situation where you put yourself on the line. And neither of these was for me. I did not feel courageous—instead I saw it as prudent and smart to get what I could from people and […]

Filed Under: Bennett Cooperman, Men's Questions

What’s Missing When Husbands Talk with Wives?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

I’ve seen that the education of Aesthetic Realism can enable marriage to be the romantic, kind thing men and women so much hope for. One of the things people are desperate for in marriage—and also despair about—is that they will be able to talk to each other deeply, have exciting, honest conversations. And despite what […]

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What Is a Husband’s Biggest Mistake?

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

I know with my happy life that the scientific principles of Aesthetic Realism can enable husbands to be proud and kind. I learned that the biggest mistake a husband makes is to dislike the world. As a result, he can: 1) try to have a cozy, exclusive nest with his wife, apart from the world; […]

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Aria da Capo & What Makes a Man Powerful?

With a consideration of the play in verse, Aria da Capo by Edna St. Vincent Millay. First presented at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC.

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Through my study of Aesthetic Realism I’ve seen that we have two different ways of trying to be powerful. In his book Self and World, Eli Siegel writes: “Aesthetic Realism sees the largest purpose of every human being as the liking of the world on an honest basis.” This purpose, I learned, represents our true […]

Filed Under: Actors & the Drama, Bennett Cooperman

Al Jolson: True Pride and How We Can We Have It

First presented in a public seminar at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, New York City.

May 6, 2015 By Bennett Cooperman

Aesthetic Realism explains our subject tonight, “True Pride & How We Can Have It,” definitively and in a way that is immediately useful to people. I learned we’ll be proud if we’re going after what Eli Siegel has described as man’s deepest purpose, to like the world honestly. In his book, Self and World, Mr. […]

Filed Under: Actors & the Drama, Bennett Cooperman

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Actors & the Drama

Jackie Gleason & Two Kinds of Anger

Edmund Kean – How Can a Man Have Real Self Expression?

Edwin Booth — What Makes Us Truly Important?

Jimmy Cagney — or Does the Way We Fight Make Us Strong or Weak?

Al Jolson: True Pride and How We Can We Have It

Edwin Forrest — What Makes a Man’s Life Large or Small?

Aria da Capo & What Makes a Man Powerful?

George M. Cohan: A Man’s Big Question—Can I Be Strong & Kind at Once?

Marriage

What Is a Husband’s Biggest Mistake?

What’s Missing When Husbands Talk with Wives?

Men’s Questions

Steve Jobs — How Much Feeling Does a Man Want to Have, and What Kind?

What Does it Mean to Be Courageous?

Samuel Pepys Shows Men Can Have Both Practicality & Idealism

Self-Esteem & Liking the World: What Is the Relation?

Indecisive Men — What Is the Cause?

Should a Man Understand His Anger, or Just Have It?

What Kind of Emotions Are Men Looking For?

Flattery or Criticism: Which Do Men Truly Want?

Generosity Vs. Grudgingness in Men

Does the Desire to Be Kind Make a Person Strong?

How Can a Man Be Rightly Sure of Himself?

Toughness & a Feeling Heart—Can a Man Have Both?

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