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George Gershwin’s “Rhapsody in Blue”—Profound & Playful

Originally presented at an Aesthetic Realism seminar: "What Can We Learn from Music about Our Lives?"

By Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

George Gershwin

George Gershwin’s Rhapsody in Blue was first performed by him in a concert with the Paul Whiteman orchestra on Abraham Lincoln’s birthday, February 12, 1924.  We’re hearing a recording from 1927, with Gershwin himself at the piano and in an arrangement for jazz band created by Ferde Grofé, Whiteman’s chief arranger.  The sound of this […]

Filed Under: Art, Music, Poetry, Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

A Wife’s Unseen Battle: Do I Hope to Like Things—or Be Displeased?

Originally presented at an Aesthetic Realism seminar in NYC, with a discussion of Katherine Mansfield's short story, "The Escape."

By Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

One lovely fall evening, as I was home making a deep-dish apple pie, I reached up into the cabinet for my flour sifter, but it wasn’t there. “Did someone move my sifter?,” I yelled out in displeasure. Since there were only two cats and one other person in the apartment, who could have moved it?  […]

Filed Under: Love & Relationships, Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

I Learned This about Food

First given in a dramatic presentation at the Aesthetic Realism Foundation, NYC

By Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

Aesthetic Realism, founded by the American philosopher Eli Siegel, has identified contempt as the “disposition in every person to think he will be for himself by making less of the outside world.” My life can be used to understand one form contempt can take in a person, and also the best thing in us—our hope […]

Filed Under: Eating Disorders, Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

A Class on Alexander Pope’s Poem “An Essay on Criticism”

Report of an Aesthetic Realism class in which Eli Siegel discussed Alexander Pope's poem on criticism and Shakespeare's "Hamlet." 

By Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

In a class he gave on September 14, 1975, Eli Siegel, Founder of Aesthetic Realism, read and discussed lines from what he has described as “one of the great poems of English literature,” Alexander Pope’s “An Essay On Criticism.”  Written in 1709, the poem is, Mr. Siegel said, “still alive,” and he discussed it in […]

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What Does Poetic Music Go For?

Report of an Aesthetic Realism class in which Eli Siegel speaks about Alfred de Musset and his poem "À la Malibran"

By Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

I’m reporting on a historic lecture Eli Siegel gave on December 3, 1969, titled “What Does Poetic Music Go For?” He is the critic who has explained what makes for music in poetry—poetry of any time from Sappho to Shakespeare to Elizabeth Barrett Browning.  “Poetry,” Mr. Siegel stated, “is the oneness of the permanent opposites […]

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Welcome!

Bennett Cooperman and Meryl Nietsch-Cooperman

We’re proud as husband and wife of 30 years to study and teach Aesthetic Realism, founded in 1941 by Eli Siegel, the American poet and philosopher.

Here you’ll find information about the ways this education has changed our lives—as to love and marriage, the understanding of eating disorders, the art of acting, and the everyday questions of men and women.

Update

Our friend and colleague of many years, Carol McCluer, has written an important letter about the profound and good effect of Aesthetic Realism on her life. She tells what she learned about success, what real love is, the debate in a woman about depending on how she looks vs. how she sees. You can read her letter here.

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